Thu 1 Nov 2007
Heart of Courage
Posted by Jane under Updates
[13] Comments
We had a great Halloween. I’m a little cynical about “kid holidays”, but I have to admit that they both had a really good time. We trick-or-treated at about 4 houses and that was plenty. At our first stop, Simon went up the stairs and when the home-owner opened the door, he walked right in and started playing with their toys. I had to forcibly remove him.
He’s been asking all day now for tweets. He is also pointing to Ramona and saying, “MaMo, roar”. That’s because Ramona was the cutest, fluffiest lion ever. Simon, comic genius that he is, went as a chubby chicken. We got some pics, but you really had to be there to appreciate how funny and cute they both were in their costumes.
Ramona was casted today for her helmet. They used a very fast-curing plaster and the whole thing really only took about ten minutes. It will be ready for her to wear in two weeks. They’ve told us to expect to see some results within a week or two!
We’re still grieving over Ramona’s illness, I think. Just when things seem to be getting better and feeling manageable something else will crop up. Some new appointment, some new issue or concern. It’s a reminder to me of the chronic nature of 22q11 and how many griefs (and joys, of course) are still ahead of us. It’s tiring. It’s scary sometimes. It’s heartbreaking to know we can’t fix it for her. It’s a real exercise in faith to just do our best for her and then sit back and watch what good God will grow from our efforts. It takes some courage.
But Ramona inspires me in that way. She is so brave. She has gone through so much and just seems to take it in stride. So I think I think it’s fitting that the lion costume I originally bought for Simon ended up as hers, it suits her heart of courage. Simon was too scared of it to even try it on, so I suppose it’s fitting too that he ended up as the chicken.
Here are some pics of our menagerie…Jane.
Love the pictures! Ramona does have a heart of courage Jane, and so do you. It IS a real exercise in faith to do what we can for our kids and let God do the rest. But think how strong your faith muscles are getting! And remember, if you ever need to talk, I’m here to listen.
HEY!!–My friend Simon is NO CHICKEN. No chicken walks into a stranger’s home and plays with the toys. Simon refused the lion costume only because he KNEW it was meant for Ramona Mae.
I am really looking forward to roaring with Ramona and clucking with Simon this weekend.
Love to you all.
What a coupla cutie pies…I’m glad Ms Monamae has that heart of courage…I think she inherited it from her folks.
love you guys
ang
Jane, I think you also have a heart of courage.
I love the costumes…and the post!
Love,
Angie
Way too cute!!! Thanks for your post.
you’ve gotta bring these cuties over to my house! we need a playdate!!
Upon further reflection I wanted to add that I think Simon inherited his sense of humor (thus far) from Andy…lol…
Been gone for awhile…so happy to see your happy, beautiful children… and I can’t wait to meet them someday…I have to tell you that Miss Ramona Mae looks Just like her grammy Sue when she was little….Stand strong there….be that unmoveable force in your children’s lives….And know that many prayers surround you and angels watch over you all!!
Love,
Aunt Jackie
Love the costumes. And I think parenting in itself is a test of our faith. Let the looks on Mona’s and Simon’s faces in these pictures be a testament that you guys are doing a great job!!!
Judy
Hi Jane… been a long time. Pat informed me of this site and I was first too overwhelmed by the stories to comment. I am so proud of the woman and mother that you have become! I have had you quietly in my thoughts & prayers…but wanted you to know…
With Love,
Jill
we hope you have a happy thanksgiving
~ love Wyndi Steven and Izabell
Jane,
Here’s the website for the November 2007 newsletter from Syracuse. I started to read the 2nd page & thought of you.
Hope all is going well.
Trish
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