Sun 11 Mar 2007
Working it Out…
Posted by Jen under Updates
[9] Comments
If you are like me and have Ramonamae.com as your home page you get a little antsy when a little time goes by without an update posted. The good news is that Ramona is doing fine. She is sleeping a lot and has a cold that is complicating things for her but otherwise she is doing ok. Jane and Andy howevear are not so fine. They are exhausted beyond belief and currently both have the stomach flu.
Right now Ramona is on a three hour schedule. This means she gets fed every three hours plus getting up for the scheduled meds twice a night. Mostly she stays asleep for the night feedings through her ng tube but each one of them takes 45 minutes. So by the time the feeding is over there is a maximum window of about 2 hours for sleep until the next feeding. Right now they are trying to work out how to get some sleep and spend time with Simon and meet all Ramona’s needs. Jane’s Mom is with them giving them amazing help with Simon who is loving all the one on one attention from his Grandma.
Many of you have asked about visits. You all know Jane and Andy and how they love visits but right now visits are on hold for two reasons. First the doctors have recommended that they keep visitors to the bare minimum and also that they not take Ramona where there are lots of people during flu season. This is to avoid any respiratory infection. If Ramona were to get one, well let’s just say it would be VERY VERY BAD. Secondly the whole family is completely exhausted. Finding time for restorative sleep has to be first on the list right now. They hope that as time goes on this will all get better.
Pleas join me in praying for much needed rest and healing for all of them. They are running the race of their lives and they have no idea what mile they are on.
They are all amazing to me and I pray that God continues to give them what they need with each step to get through each day. Jane, Andy, Simon, and Ramona, may God bless you with Peace, Rest, Healing, Growth, Love, and Quality Family time. We Love You.
Jen: Thanks so much! First of all, I was going through serious update withdrawal. Second, this is just the kind of info that is good to know (about visiting, sleep schedule, etc.) As someone who loves Jane and Andy and their kids, I thank you for your steadfastness with them in this time and for keeping the rest of us in the loop. Dina
I am sorry they are both ill. That must make a hard job really lousy but it is good news about Ramona sleeping well despite the cold.
There isn’t any real shortcut with those tube feeds but if she is gaining you can ask to have them reduced at night to 4 hourly and up the intake during the day. That is the natural eat/sleep stuff for babies her age anyway so she should do okay on it. Also, alternating who does the feed is a good idea (they are probably doing that anyway?)
Thanks for the update.
Thanks for the update, I was getting antsy too!
Sigh… my heart goes out to all of you guys.
I wish that I could do more than send my prayers and well wishes over the internet.
However, all of you are in my thoughts.
Jane and Andy,
Hey guys, I’m sorry you’re so exhausted, if theres anything I can do to help, let me know. I’m always thinking about Ramona. It was awesome seeing Simon walk, I can’t believe he’s a little boy now!
Thanks for the update Jen. It helps me know how to pray. Jane and Andy, as always, you are in my thoughts constantly and in my prayers throughout the day. Love you.
Val
Andy and Jane,
You are in my prayers. God will find a way. Just when I think I have no more energy or strength, Gods supplies all my needs. Love and hugs
A Rose
Jane and Andy, we are praying for you. Especially for supernatural artery growth – and lots of sleep!
All the moms at Mommy and Me asked about you and send their prayers. We will all pray for healing for all of you and strength to face each new day. We know that little Simon is doing his share of sending joy to all of you when stress seems to overwhelm. Bobbie
Thanks Jen for taking the time and thought for the consistent, constant updates – I know it is a labor of love for you.
Andrew Murray, a wonderful old theologian, wrote a great little book called “With Christ in the School of Prayer” where he argues that we, as Christians, do not avail upon nearly enough, the power and value of prayer. I know it the best thing we can do for Ramona Mae and the families.
Much love and prayer,
Mike and Jackie